Ne-Yo is an American R&B singer and songwriter, he has many hits that are mostly based and talking about love. Love has many definitions — but the one that stands out most and is in his songs is that love is being completely fascinated and almost obsessed with someone or something. Ne-Yo seems to think that love is “everything he needs” as he says that in his song “Miss. Independent”. Love is observing someone’s traits and quirky ways of doing things and becoming interested in them, this can be anything from walking, talking, work ethics, physical traits, views on certain subjects, or any other “things” a specific person does.
From the way he sings he sounds like love makes you willing to do or provide anything for someone else. Miss Independent just talks about all the aspects of why he loves this girl he is thinking of, “there’s something about her”, this shows that you might not know why you feel in love with someone or something but there is “something” that fuels that emotion. Love can make a person confused and overjoyed to the point where they are almost obsessed with that thing they are in love with.
If the love is a mutual feeling then the obsession is perfectly okay and it is so natural, everyone loves something or someone at a point and it is a full body emotion that actually is okay if you get confused because that’s just the way humans are. When or if that love fails or is broken, whoever that is involved can become extremely sad — showing the other side of the love spectrum. Love can cause so much happiness or it can cause absolute pain and sadness. When someone looses something they love, their whole body suffers since it is a full body emotion.
In Ne-Yo’s song “So Sick” he is singing about how he is feeling after his girl left him. He mentions that “its been months and for some reason, I just can’t get over us”, when two people are in love they are infatuated with one another and in a sense become one person. Later on in life when two people start a life together it is because they love and want to be completely committed to each other, but when they start building a life together, their lives physically and emotionally mesh together, making splits and other issues such a big deal.
No one wants their love to end or fail but sometimes that is just what is destine to happen, it doesn’t benefit either person usually but in some cases it is just what has to happen. When someone is going through a breakup, small things that remind them of their ex significant other can bother them and cause even more grief. In his song he said he is “don’t make me think about her smile or having my first child, I’m letting go, turning off the radio because i’m so sick of love songs”.
He was heartbroken once his lady left him and even the simplest love songs make him upset so therefore for his own good he turns the radio off and tries to move on from his tragic split. Overcoming a heartbreak seems hard and takes small steps especially if the two people were very involved. Also Ne-Yo sings about how one person in the relationship could crave the other person because they are in love with them while the other person doesn’t quite know how they feel — leaving the one person that is in love to convince them why they should develop feelings back.
That sounds a little forced but situations like that are caused by timing usually and the other person tends to love the other person back they just weren’t so sure at the same time. In his song “Let Me Love You” he pretty much says that this one girl almost doesn’t feel worthy of being in love so he sings about convincing her and mentioning all the reasons why she should. He says things that show that he cares about this girl and that he thinks they have true love between them.
He is willing to give this girl everything he has because he is in love with her, in a real true love, both people should be completely and totally willing to do anything for each other. When you are in love someone they become your whole life and you care about them and their well-being above anything else. You put them first in everything and they are your ultimate priority, their happiness fuels your happiness.
People that end up genuinely loving multiple people in their lifetime, tend not to love different people for the same reasons, it is a very personalized emotion and you tend to love someone for being themselves and you should honor the special qualities about them that make you love them. For example people don’t love someone because of their hair color or their height, they rather would love someone because of their personality. There is no way to be in love with someone for a physical trait in my opinion, if you only love someone for a physical trait then you don’t love that person, you love that physical trait.
In order to be in love with someone you should be able to look past the physical qualities and look at who they really are. “Something about her” is a quote Ne-Yo uses and i think that is brilliant, sometimes like I said you don’t necessarily know why you love someone its just something about them that draws you to them and intrigues you to a high extent. Love is a beautiful emotion that can cause an array of feelings but everyone feels it, different people just express it differently.